Monday, May 30, 2016

In Memory of All Who Lost Their Live and the Families Who Lost Their Loves - A Poem



I know that Memorial Day is for remembering those who perished in their service to our country, but I submit that there are many who came home and walk among us who have lost their lives in a different way. I wrote this several years ago after one such casualty returned from the sand.  

I pray for the families in both scenarios and thank all veterans and their families for their service.  God Bless America

Lost in The Sand

We were so happy when he came home safe and sound
Not a scar or a scratch could be seen
But we found later that they were there, just out of sight
And while his body came home, his spirit was lost
Missing In Action, a Prisoner of War
 When we drive past innocuous buildings in the city now, he shows us which ones would be good sniper posts
He gives us unrequested tips on where we could hide if we were to suddenly be under fire
And he drinks beer from the time he wakes up till he lays his head down at night
Never water, it could be poisoned
And never from a container opened by someone else
He doesn’t trust anyone.
His daughter didn’t want to see the differences in him
But his wife couldn’t help it
Especially after he woke her one night by punching her in the face
He hadn’t meant to hurt her of course
He was dreaming and the enemy haunted his dreams
Then she became the enemy in his waking hours too
Requiring more of him than he could give by simply needing him to come home
All the way home
And leave the sand behind
He never could though
So he left her too
He carries his wounds deep inside,
So far no one can see,
Unless they loved him before he went to war
Then they know
And they wait for him to return, all the way, from the sand.

Sunday, May 29, 2016

For America, Whom I Love






The objectives for Homeland Security are to prevent terrorist attacks within The United States, reduce America’s vulnerability to terrorism, and minimize the damage and recover from attacks that do occur. I propose that the simplest and most effective way to achieve these objectives is to utilize America’s greatest resource; her people. 

How will engaging the American people achieve these objectives? I believe that when our citizenry are reminded of the great liberties that we have, our great history and amazing possibilities, that we as a united people will begin to care more and work harder for the freedoms we have all taken for granted at one time or another. We will begin to know our neighbors and take note of those who have destructive tendencies toward this land. Engaging the peoples of The United States of America will help Homeland Defense in many ways because when we work for a common goal, we are unstoppable as a people. However, history has shown, we will only work in unison when working for something we love, or at the very least respect. When we are reminded or begin to remember once again the great men and women of our history who said and believed things like; "The liberties of our country, the freedom of our civil Constitution, are worth defending at all hazards; and it is our duty to defend them against all attacks. We have received them as a fair inheritance from our worthy ancestors: they purchased them for us with toil and danger and expense of treasure and blood, and transmitted them to us with care and diligence.” (Samuel Adams), then we will inevitably become more and better informed and make more reliable political, ethical, educational, and societal decisions.  History has shown that when Americans are united in cause, we are a force to be reckoned with. Uniting the citizens in this great land of ours for the common good of country and countrymen, in my opinion, will be the single most effective way to reduce America’s vulnerability to terrorism from within and without, and minimize the damage and recover from attacks that do occur. 

In order for the American people to become engaged once again in their patriotic duties as citizens, we have to be reminded, and in some cases informed, of what has made this country great. Generations past, before political correctness became the norm and changed our history books, knew these truths: America was built by citizens just like us who were both good and bad, who gave and shared and gave some more. Her citizens were faithful to God and country and family and gave their all to make each one the best it could be. Our forefathers made mistakes no doubt, we all have and will continue to in some ways as long as we are human beings, but when we work together and with one goal, we become great. 

The media has become god-like in this land, and this in many ways is to the detriment of our country. However, we can utilize this giant for the good of our nation. Publicity has made the basest of humanity into icons, and I propose that we use this now to gain back the hearts and minds of our people. Through the use of this image maker, media, we can remind our citizenry of the great men who came before us like; 

JFK who said, "Let us think of education as the means of developing our greatest abilities, because in each of us there is a private hope and dream which, fulfilled, can be translated into benefit for everyone and greater strength for our nation.", and "And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you - ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.”
 
and Thomas Jefferson who said, “The cement of this union is the heart-blood of every American.” 

and Dwight Eisenhower who said, "Freedom has its life in the hearts, the actions, the spirit of men and so it must be daily earned and refreshed - else like a flower cut from its life-giving roots, it will wither and die."
 
By introducing “commercials” or public service announcements that are entertaining but with patriotic messages and historical truths, the younger people would undoubtedly be introduced to patriotism in a new way. Add some animated programming and you can reach a whole new group of young people.  Introduce a prime time version of the same and you have an even larger and more impactful demographic. And I’m not talking politics here, I’m talking patriotism: love of country and our responsibilities to her. Somewhere along the line someone fed our people a lie that said in order to acknowledge and celebrate all the cultures that made up the American citizenry, we had to distill our American culture or forget it all together. If we but remind people, gently at first, that America is the “great melting pot” of old where immigrants have been welcomed to come and live and work legally to escape the hardships of their former countries, then perhaps they will realize that even with her blemishes, America once was great, is great, and can be greater still. 

The great minds that now work to slant the news to one opinion or the other, and who write the eloquent speeches and create the scenarios and sound bytes that we see on television could use their talents to make movies that would stir this nation to greatness. (This could even be a form of revenue for the government that might take a bite out of the ever growing national deficit.)
Many are those among us who want their information spoon fed them. Feed them well I say! Feed them on the milk and fruit of patriotism. Show them however they will see that it takes all of us, caring, working together, towards a common goal of one country united for the good of all to uphold the constitution, to keep our flag waving and our land free. Yes, there will be those who disagree, there will be those who will turn a blind eye or will miss out in protest. Sadly, there always will be. Still, you cannot reap a harvest if you never sow a seed. Let the seeds of patriotism be planted in the hearts and minds of America’s people and see the harvest she brings. This land is fertile for growing life, liberty, and strong men and women. It isn’t strong opinions that have divided us; it is skewed information and rewritten histories. Let the truth be told and learned from. People can be moved to greatness when greatness is expected of them.  For too long entitlement manipulation and low expectations have been the rule rather than the exception. If you remind the people the greatness they are born from and for, they will rise up and we will be greater than ever before in new ways. 

Along with the air waves, the written media can be utilized. The major dailies of our great cities reach millions every week. Reminding the thinkers, the readers, those who pride themselves on “keeping up with the times” that no matter your political affiliation you can be a patriot will at the very least begin a dialogue around something more worthy than what the gossip columnists are saying, or about what the first lady is wearing. Let us print the real heart warming and profound stories of what our amazing citizens are doing here in America. Let the people be reminded not only of what made America great, but of what keeps her that way and what can make her better still. 

In that great American Ronald Reagan’s farewell address he said "And let me offer lesson No. 1 about America: All great change in America begins at the dinner table. So, tomorrow night in the kitchen I hope the talking begins. And children, if your parents haven't been teaching you what it means to be an American, let 'em know and nail 'em on it. That would be a very American thing to do." I believe he said this because America historically isn’t afraid of learning. Yes, we have had some hard lessons to learn and we have made some poor decisions along the way, but we cannot change history so we’d best learn from it. The only way to learn from the past is to look it in the face and stare it down, learning all it has to teach then telling it to get behind us so we can move ahead to a better way and a better day. John Quincy Adams said this best when he said “Posterity: you will never know how much it has cost my generation to preserve your freedom. I hope you will make good use of it.” We must as a nation be reminded once again what price each generation has paid to preserve our freedom so that we can begin to make better use of it. 

Using what we know works, media, to change minds and hearts will be the simplest and most effective tool. Instead of taking years in committees to decide and agree upon some new and expensive way to keep us safe and free, why not use what has worked best for so long; Americans. 

Thank you for your time and consideration in reading the ideas of one American who loves her country and wants more than anything to see her remain strong and free. God bless America.

Written 11/29/2010 for a writing contest. Shared today, 5/29/2016 in the spirit of God Bless America and Memorial Day. 

Friday, May 27, 2016

Days 9 and 10- Words and Strong Feelings




Well, it appears that I did it again… missed another day, already. 

Day 9 and I have already missed a second day. I’m feeling mighty low about this but I’m trying to get back into the “butt in seat” habit.
So, Day 9’s prompt was “post some words of wisdom that speak to you” and Day 10, today, is “write about something for which you feel strongly.” Earlier today I could have stepped upon my soap box and given a speech or written a manifesto, of course now that I sit at the desk with my fingers on the keys I can’t think of a thing to say. Well, maybe a few little things…

I love words. I love quotes and have boards dedicated to them on Pinterest.com and surfaces plastered with them all over my house. Some of my favorite words of wisdom are from the Bible, such as;
Matthew 11:28-30 in The Message paraphrase
28-30 “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”

And …
Galatians 6:7-9 from the Good News Translation
7 Do not deceive yourselves; no one makes a fool of God. You will reap exactly what you plant. 8 If you plant in the field of your natural desires, from it you will gather the harvest of death; if you plant in the field of the Spirit, from the Spirit you will gather the harvest of eternal life. 9 So let us not become tired of doing good; for if we do not give up, the time will come when we will reap the harvest. 

I also love wise words from great men and women of influence such as;

Maya Angelou- There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside of you. 

Mahatma Gandhi – Be the change that you wish to see in the world. 

Dr. Seuss – Why fit in when you were born to stand out.

And …
C.S. Lewis - You doubt your value- Don’t run from who you are. – Aslan, Chronicles of Narnia 

I suppose what I feel most strongly today is something along the lines of “know who you are and be that.”  So many of the problems in today’s world is that so many of us have no idea who we are and/or what our value is. I mean, people get killed daily over “disrespect”, or being offended by what someone else said. Such a sad thing when quite often the thing that was said was never meant to offend or was misheard or misquoted. If we all understood who we were and what our purpose was, our value at the very core of our being, then it seems no one else’s estimation, whether favorable or otherwise would matter so much as to make us act contrary to our truest self. 

I sometimes think I do know who I am at the very center of myself, and then other times I’m frightened to bits by what I think I might be at my very core. The only thing I know to be true of me is that I am God’s and He created me for a purpose. On days like today, when I feel tired and achy and my heart is heavy that knowledge sustains me and reminds me that because I still have breath, I still have a purpose.

Tomorrow will be day 11 of 30 and the prompt is “Something that you always think “what if” about.” Now there is a thought to think about, yes? 

What say you dear readers? Let me know what you think. 

Peace to you all,
TheWritingMommy


Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Day 8- Struggles



Day 8 – Share Something You Struggle With


Geeze, this is getting personal isn’t it? I guess I can trust you though; right? Sure I can, we’re all friends here.


I’m not sure exactly what sort of struggles to write about because sadly I have plenty to choose from.


Physically, I struggle with heart disease, type II diabetes, and fibromyalgia. As bad as it sounds I am really very blessed because I have survived cervical cancer in 1990, a heart attack in 2013, and fibromyalgia for 19 years. But I have survived! And now, I am eating a healthier diet and exercising almost every day and I feel so much better than I have in years.
I don’t really “struggle” with any of that now really, except the fibromyalgia, which is a daily adventure on its own. Sort of like Forrest’s box of chocolates, I never know what I’m gonna get.


One of my bigger struggles is with over eating, especially when I am upset or angry or sad; basically, emotional eating or using food as a source of comfort. And the guilt that follows… oy vey!


See, I know that gluttony is a sin, and I know that wasting food by eating more than I need or even want is just wrong and sometimes, even knowing these things, I feel powerless to stop it.


I know, I know, it sounds like a lot of hooey to someone who doesn’t have any addictive tendencies, or even to those who struggle with “real” addiction like cigarettes, drugs, or alcohol but believe me when I say, the struggle is real.


See, food is the addiction that has historically been accepted socially. It is even fostered. Don’t believe me? What do you do when someone dies? You take the grieving family a casserole or a bucket of chicken. When someone is celebrating a milestone in their life, wins a big game or is victorious in some other way, how do you celebrate? Usually with a dinner or at the very least, a cake.
I guess the point is we all struggle with something. We can’t quantify someone else's struggle because we don’t feel what they feel. What is excruciatingly difficult for me might be a piece of cake (no pun intended) for you, and what may be easy for me might be a stumbling block for you. We have to find a way to be at peace with ourselves, then with others, because you never really know what someone else is going through.


Peace and love y'all-
TheWritingMommy